If you're not attracted then don't date them but don't disgard them like they are nothing. You say that you want to keep chatting with this girl. I say keep talking to her and you might form a bond that will allow you to look past what you think is ugly. First off, I need to say that physical attraction is not on the top of the list of "important" qualities, but attraction physically should be there to some degree. Neither one of us had any physical attraction towards eachother.
This is going to sound really shallow too, but hey..less than perfect girls are AWESOME between the sheets. She was not someone I would've considered being my type in any way, and vice versa for her.
Now, a new study further investigates how much truth there is to this supposed bias — and its possible evolutionary underpinnings.Is it just me who feels like this or is it every male out there? God forgive someone sees you talking to a less attractive person. I don't find you 'setting your standards higher but lower." Everyone, and I mean everyone has beauty within.(Even an unwashed bum on the street)It might not be in their looks but in some other quality. As you grow older I hope you dig within yourself to find the beauty in others. I think you are on your way to getting past this....somewhat.Now I'm trying to pretend I never even saw the picture so I can keep talking to her. And then in school or something I would never talk to some of the less attractive girls or at least not try to date them.I don't understand, why do I keep standing my standards so high?