They scan the room, menu, and table setting, only occasionally making eye contact. Either way, it’s exciting to be able to get to know another human being and get a peek into his or her world. Biggest clue of all: The salad course is punctuated by strained silence and forced small talk. Great communication starts with being genuinely interested in the individual you’re with and paying close attention to what he/she says.
If you’re 21 and he’s 45, you might want to wait till the next guy comes to your table before things get too serious.8. Is he a native of the land, or has he recently moved (maybe from some exotic state or country? Does he want to gawk at Pamela Anderson over dinner, or dive into the intelligent mind of Albert Einstein? You might find out he’s got a really cool classic car he’d love to show you off in! What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you?
But when you become aware of what women are really after with these dating questions, you empower yourself.
Because you're aware of what they're really doing, you give yourself the power to define the dynamic of your relationship rather than letting her do it — which is what happens if you don't recognize where these question are coming from and how to deal with them.
This is another make it or break it for most woman, so knowing the answer to this question right away is imperative.5. No woman wants to be with an unemployed man with no potential, so knowing his current employment status is important. This is the perfect question to really see if the two of you are a match. He loves fast cars, and you enjoy slow bike rides- maybe not so much of a match.10. If he’s got 13 dogs and you can’t stand dogs, then the two of you might not work out. You might find out that this man has a soft spot for animals and wants to save the dolphins, or maybe he’s an avid pianist and enjoys classical music profoundly.22. This question will let you know just how confident he is.23. Again, we all have something we wish we could change. This question just might lead the two of you to making plans for a dinner date! This really is an icebreaking question as it lets you know a little more about him without asking anything too serious.29. This is another great question that always comes with a string of interesting answers. If you were given three wishes, what would you wish for? This question is incredibly fun and will definitely have a great answer.31. Speed dating doesn’t have to be all serious questions. A man who can do DIY projects (and actually enjoys them) is an automatic winner for any woman. Ok, so be careful not to ask this question too soon. I think we can all agree that a man who can speak more than one language is just sexy, so this is definitely something you will want to know right off the bat.39.
Who knows, he could be the manager of your favorite restaurant or a high-end lawyer.6. Don’t be too quick to judge if he’s unemployed without first asking this question. However if you’re both avid pet lovers and he’s got a couple, this might be a match made in heaven.11. Perhaps he’s the adventurous type that loves to travel, or maybe he’s a homebody who would rather stay inside and treat you to a homemade dinner and candlelit massages.12. If you’re tired of asking question and he seems a little shy, ask this question to see what questions might be hiding in the depths of his mind.13. You can really find out about his personality here, if he loves comedies he might be a funny guy always cracking jokes while the guy who loves action movies might be a bit more dramatic and serious.14. Is his answer something simple, like the size of his nose, or does his answer go deeper to a more personal level? Hopefully the man sitting across from you comes up with a more thrilling answer than a car and a house. Hey, he might surprise you and tell you he would buy his momma a house. Ask him this silly question and give yourself a laugh to lighten up the mood.32. Another great question to lighten up the awkward tension and get the two of you laughing together. (Just be careful not to let the drink come out of your nose! Plus there’s nothing like watching a man put something together with his own hands- such a turn on! You don’t want to come off as a woman digging for gold, trying to find out whether or not this guy is rich and worth your time.