Even when you’re dating someone very similar to yourself, misunderstandings are bound to occur.
This is even more true when you’re dating someone from a completely different background.
So let's take a look at when using Chinese Dating Rules that'll help make her attracted to you and also feel you are the kind of guy that can fit her: 1. Whereas in western culture we will steer clear of making any reference to good-looks when we first meet someone of the opposite sex, within Chinese culture this is perfectly normal. A western female you first meet may role her eyes and then make sure to avoid us after we comment on her beauty, but a Chinese woman won't.
When dating Chinese women there are some kinds of Chinese dating etiquette you should probably be aware of and follow.
You don't want to make one embarrassing mistake that will make her think twice about dating you again.
This goes back to less stable times, when marriage meant much-needed security, but of course this is by no means a purely Chinese phenomenon: In 2010, 44% of American women had married by age 25, but way way back in 1995, more than 59% had been hitched by 25.
China is relatively new to the whole modern-stable-globalized-internet (still working on that last one, really) country thing, and when your culture is over 4,000 years in the making, old habits die hard.