It’s not a fun experience to go through and if it’s happening to you, here’s a cyber hug.
However, the one thing that seems to be the unwritten rule among us is that we would never even consider dating our friends' exes. But now I realize this rule really needs more thought, because I believe there are two factors to consider before answering my girlfriend's Facebook question.Shutterstock When it comes to dating your friend’s ex, most of us know “The Code.” It’s that Girl Code that contains the unspoken rule that dating your friend’s ex is TOTALLY out of the question. But are there any “loopholes” when it comes to this “rule?” For example, what if they dated in high school and you’re now 40 years old and your best friend is married to another amazing guy? Is it okay to go after a friend’s ex after a certain amount of time has passed?Now I didn't think she would really do it, after all that's weird setting friends up with your ex-husband, no matter how casual of friends. Random texts from people I don’t know wishing me happy bday is odd even for my life.That night when I got home I noticed I had a text message that said Hi, this is _______. Then I remember my friend saying she's going to give my number to her ex. For 3 months we send texts but never talked on the phone or met.